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Girl Meets BFD: “It Was Like A Light Being Turned On”

October 1st, 2010

The other day, I got an email that touched me deeply. Mel was kind enough to allow me to repost it here. In our email conversation, we both agreed that a huge part of why BFD means so much to so many people is the community that has been created here. So this is a […]

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Feel Good Friday: New Features Plus Bonus Cat Video

August 20th, 2010

Firstly, I hope you’ve had a chance to notice all the small improvements around here. We now have buttons on each entry to let you Twitter and Facebook them, you can reply to individual comments, you can have follow-up comments emailed to you (which is really handy if someone joins a conversation late), and you […]

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Penelope, Hayley, and Sophia Stand Up For Teenage Girls Of All Sizes

July 30th, 2010

This seems to be the week for celebrity women to advocate for body positivity—or at least, it’s the week I found all these links! First off, from Becky on Twitter comes this story about Penelope Cruz, who says you don’t have to be thin to be pretty. “I would close down all those teenage magazines […]

Filed under: Advocacy, Celebrities, Fashion, Fat Positive, Fatism, Feel Good Friday, Feminism, Gossip, Hayley Hasselhoff, Huge, International, Kids, Magazines, TV | 7 Comments »

Venus & Venus: More Fat Art

July 16th, 2010

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“Why All The Big Girls Should Move To New Orleans”

June 25th, 2010

An email from the awesome Jezebella (with the subject line above): I just had to share this Kermit Ruffins video with y’all. When was the last time you saw a pure-D big girl dancing in the background of a music video? I love her joyous dancing – it’s not pornified or anything, just happy fun […]

Filed under: Feel Good Friday, Music, Video | 8 Comments »

Fat Women In Art

June 21st, 2010

Here’s an email that I got from BFDiva Mary! She found a very cool statue out in the wild: So, a long while back – I am hoping it was one year, but fear it may be two! – you had a bit of a series on BFD about fat women in art – Venus […]

Filed under: Art, Feel Good Friday, Guest Post, Question | 7 Comments »

Feel-Good Friday

June 18th, 2010

Sometimes, the internet is a rough place–read the comments on almost any high-trafficked news article or blog post or photo, and you run into a vile world of small-minded prejudice and casual hate and discrimination and nasty, slimy minds that seem like they would be best locked away in the dark. So sometimes, I like […]

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Live Nude Girls!

June 4th, 2010

It’s Feel Good Friday, so how about some topless plus-size models? Follow this link! NSFW! (And thanks to Laurie for the link!) For its June 2010 issue, French Marie Claire has gone curvy with editorials featuring plus-size models in lingerie and swimsuits à la française–that’s right, only bottoms, no tops! Of course, these are all […]

Filed under: Art, Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, International, Magazines, NSFW, Personal, Sex & Romance, Tidbit | 11 Comments »

Beth Ditto At Cannes

May 21st, 2010

For Feel-Good Friday, a picture that made me feel good. Check out that insane eye makeup and lipstick! The awesome shape of that dress, which breaks all the fat-girl muumuu rules! The ruffly crazy thing! The color! The attitude. Makes me want to pack something wacky to wear to Forbidden Zone this weekend. Beth Ditto, […]

Filed under: Beth Ditto, Celebrities, Fashion, Feel Good Friday, Tidbit | 6 Comments »

Follow Friday

May 21st, 2010

So this is like, a blog/Twitter crossover event! On Twitter, they have “Follow Fridays,” where you tell people who to follow on Twitter. So here’s my Follow Friday for you–The Illusionists, No Country for Young Women, and Revolution of Real Women. Because these three Twitter streams (in addition to being consistently awesome) are where I […]

Filed under: Beth Ditto, Celebrities, Diet Talk, Feel Good Friday, Feminism, Magazines, Music, Photoshop, Video, Weight Loss | 4 Comments »

What’s In Your Bookmarks?

May 14th, 2010

I’ve been feeling the need to find some new blogs to squeeze into my already overfull Google reader! So I figured, it’s Friday, let’s chat about our favorite stops on the Internet these days! For Fatosphere stuff, I read the Notes from the Fatosphere feed, as well as the Alltop Fatosphere listing, and of course […]

Filed under: Fashion, Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, Feminism, Gossip, Meta, Question | 11 Comments »

Public Relations Spam Randomness

May 7th, 2010

You have to admire the creativity of PR people sometimes, desperately trying to shoehorn their products into stories about whatever might be making headlines, and then blindly sending those stories to bloggers whose blogs may or may not be at all related to the products they’re trying to sell. Here are some ridiculous pitches I’ve […]

Filed under: Advertising, American Idol, Celebrities, Feel Good Friday, Hairspray, Humor, Kids, Magazines, Meta, Music, TV | 7 Comments »

Obesity Competition In A Shopping Mall In China

April 23rd, 2010

Chinese reader Maya sends along a link to photos of an “obesity competition” held in a shopping mall in China’s Shenyang, Liaoning province. Maya adds: What do you think? Aside from the fact that those dresses are FANTASTIC, I feel like this is really exploititive and just a way to make the general population laugh. […]

Filed under: Fashion, Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, Feminism, International | 7 Comments »

All The Single Fatties

April 9th, 2010

As our Dating While Fat conversation continues, I feel I was remiss in not include a link to this video. Woo!

Filed under: Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, Feminism, Sex & Romance, Tidbit, Video | 8 Comments »

Role Written For A Man Goes To A Plus-Size Woman

April 2nd, 2010

I do so love it when women get to play roles originally written for men. Angelina Jolie is starring in an action film that was written for Tom Cruise. (The eponymous Edwin A. Salt became Evelyn Salt in the movie now called Salt.) Lucy Liu took on the role of Agent Sever in Ecks vs. […]

Filed under: Celebrities, Feel Good Friday, Feminism, Kathy Bates, Magazines, The Office, TV | 7 Comments »

Review: Igigi Cosenza Dress

March 26th, 2010

Those of us who attended Weetacon this year were asked if we’d like to snag ourselves some Igigi outfits and then do little writeups of them. Of course, remembering how well that worked out for us last time, I was on board! I chose the Cosenza dress, with its asymmetrical neckline and its sparkly business. […]

Filed under: Fashion, Feel Good Friday, Meta, Personal, Review | 18 Comments »

Smashing Plus Size Fashion: Shopping Roundup!

February 26th, 2010

Commenter Punchy says, how about a round-up of plus-size fashion options? and we said, hell yes! Let’s do this thing! Fashionable plus-size dressing tends to take more time, energy and creativity, because options are way more limited, and generally you have to hunt through offerings to find what you want and what you need. There’s […]

Filed under: Fashion, Feel Good Friday, Jenfu | 44 Comments »

Update To Fat Bridesmaid Story

February 5th, 2010

I’m sorry I haven’t posted anything since last Friday (it’s been a crazy week), but here’s a follow up that I was happy to read this morning: So Carolyn, about an hour after your chat last week I called up my nasty bridezilla friend (the one who dropped another bridesmaid for being too fat) and […]

Filed under: Advocacy, Feel Good Friday, Tidbit | 19 Comments »

Bride Dumps Fat Bridesmaid Who Will “Ruin The Pictures”

January 29th, 2010

So the first part of this story isn’t so much Feel Good Friday fodder. A bride has apparently dropped one of her bridesmaids for being too fat, according to a letter sent to advice columnist Carolyn Hax. The feel good part is that the letter-writer is one of the other bridesmaids, who is so appalled […]

Filed under: Fat Positive, Fatism, Feel Good Friday, Tidbit | 40 Comments »

Read Anything Good Lately?

January 8th, 2010

It’s Feel Good Friday, and as such, I’m going to throw out some links to a few things on the Internet I read this week with pleasure. I already recommended this on Twitter, but Roger Ebert’s essay about no longer being able to eat or drink is fantastic. The man is a national treasure. (Via.) […]

Filed under: Celebrities, Feel Good Friday, Feminism, Movies, Question, Race & Ethnicity, TV | 9 Comments »

Plus-Sized Paper Dolls

December 4th, 2009

I was working on a post recently that involved some kind of pun about plus-sized paper dolls, and then I wondered if there were any plus-sized paper dolls, and then found this link. Download both the dolls and their outfits from this site, and enjoy!

Filed under: Art, Feel Good Friday, Tidbit | 4 Comments »

Street Fashion

November 20th, 2009

When I used to work in San Francisco, I’d often notice fat chicks who were dressed awesomely. I was always tempted to to take their pictures, to ask them where they bought what they were wearing, and to copy their looks if I possibly could. I never did any of those things, so I’m really […]

Filed under: Fashion, Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, International | 6 Comments »

Feel-Good Friday: April Flores, You Can Make Me Feel Good Any Time

November 13th, 2009

Are you feeling down, low, sad, lonely, lacking in happiness and needing a tiny little boost to get you through that last patch of Friday and boost you into the weekend? Are you feeling cynical, hateful, sure that the world is bigoted and there are no positive, body-friendly messages left on earth and that everyone […]

Filed under: Advocacy, Art, Celebrities, Fashion, Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, Feminism, International, Magazines, Media, NSFW, Video | 37 Comments »

Baby Phat Does Plus Size Right

October 30th, 2009

One of the things about most retailers who have several, separate lines of clothing is that for some reason, the plus-size clothes never seem to be anywhere close to as nice as the clothes in the other sizes. It’s like they design a whole cavalcade of items for their petites and their misses, and then […]

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Fat And Disabled Contestants On Project Runway

October 23rd, 2009

I just found out there is a second season of Project Runway Australia, so of course, I had to look it up on YouTube. Watching the opening credits I spotted a fat chick, who reminded me of the awesome Jessica Biffi on Project Runway Canada. Then I started watching the episode, and I found even […]

Filed under: Fashion, Feel Good Friday, Humor, International, Project Runway, TV, Video | 2 Comments »

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