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August 14th, 2010

Since we were just talking about “lose weight for your wedding” pressure, this post by Silvana of Tiger Beatdown really resonated. I was pretty fine with my body. Fine with being a fat bride. Fine with the fact that I was wearing a strapless dress which showed off my, yes, arms — which are considered [...]

Filed under: Fatism, Personal, Sex & Romance, Tidbit | 5 Comments »

Huge: Are You Watching?

June 28th, 2010

When we talked about Huge, a lot of people said they might watch it, so I figured I’d open up a discussion thread for the show! If you’re watching it (or if you watched it already), let us know what you thought!

Filed under: Celebrities, Huge, Nikki Blonsky, TV, Tidbit | 23 Comments »

Bad Weight Loss Advice

June 23rd, 2010

Jenfu sends along a link to bad weight loss advice for women. Such as laugh off the pounds, or chew gum for an hour, or this: “Try an almond stacked on top of a dried apricot — it tastes like a cookie. Really.” Um… no. I’m not exactly a foodologist, but I’m pretty sure that [...]

Filed under: Food, Glee, Humor, TV, Tidbit, Video, Weight Loss | 15 Comments »

Live Nude Girls!

June 4th, 2010

It’s Feel Good Friday, so how about some topless plus-size models? Follow this link! NSFW! (And thanks to Laurie for the link!) For its June 2010 issue, French Marie Claire has gone curvy with editorials featuring plus-size models in lingerie and swimsuits à la française–that’s right, only bottoms, no tops! Of course, these are all [...]

Filed under: Art, Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, International, Magazines, NSFW, Personal, Sex & Romance, Tidbit | 11 Comments »

A Link Worth Following

May 28th, 2010

On Heavy Girls and Sexy Times, by Silvana, at Tiger Beatdown. 2. Here is what you learn very early, as a young woman prone to fatness, even before puberty: My body is bad. My body is disgusting. My body is something for me to fight against. My body will not cooperate with my desire to [...]

Filed under: Feminism, Kids, Sex & Romance, Tidbit | 4 Comments »

Beth Ditto At Cannes

May 21st, 2010

For Feel-Good Friday, a picture that made me feel good. Check out that insane eye makeup and lipstick! The awesome shape of that dress, which breaks all the fat-girl muumuu rules! The ruffly crazy thing! The color! The attitude. Makes me want to pack something wacky to wear to Forbidden Zone this weekend. Beth Ditto, [...]

Filed under: Beth Ditto, Celebrities, Fashion, Feel Good Friday, Tidbit | 6 Comments »

Concern Trolling Via Post-It Note

May 13th, 2010

We’ve talked about Passive Aggressive Notes before, when a woman sent a tragically misspelled note to some strangers at lunch, suggesting they should lose weight. Well, here we go again! Please do not take this the wrong way, I am just concerned for your health. Have you considered Weight Watchers? This was sent to a [...]

Filed under: Fatism, TV, Tidbit, Weight Loss | 15 Comments »

Fatism In The Wild

May 13th, 2010

I was driving to a meeting tonight, and flipped through my radio presets. When I got to Live 105, I heard a promo that went something like this: Music was originally used by cavemen… to drive fat chicks away. Just a throwaway bit, but it pissed me off. The implication that music is for men, [...]

Filed under: Fatism, Feminism, Music, Tidbit | 9 Comments »

Baby Food Diet Cleanse

May 6th, 2010

Bing.com is sending people here because Jennifer Aniston is reportedly on the Baby Food Diet. But she was on the Baby Food Diet all the way back in 2007! I guess this is news because now her trainer is referring to it as the “Baby Food Cleanse.” The diet involves eating 14 servings of baby [...]

Filed under: Celebrities, Diet Talk, Food, Gossip, Jennifer Aniston, Meta, Personal, Tidbit, Weight Loss | 19 Comments »

Man Barbie: Where Do Big & Tall Guys Shop?

April 26th, 2010

In the tradition of Wedding Barbie, Pregnant Barbie, and Sexy Barbie, here’s Man Barbie! Where should BFDudes do their shopping? Jez writes in: So, I have been trying to help my similarly-weighty fiance to find clothes and I found it even more difficult to find interesting, fashion-forward clothing options for him than I’ve ever experienced [...]

Filed under: Fashion, Question, Tidbit | 20 Comments »

All The Single Fatties

April 9th, 2010

As our Dating While Fat conversation continues, I feel I was remiss in not include a link to this video. Woo!

Filed under: Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, Feminism, Sex & Romance, Tidbit, Video | 8 Comments »

A “More Positive” Way To Say “Fat Spinster”

March 29th, 2010

I teach a composition class, and one of the textbook exercises this week was quite illuminating! The students read a section on denotative and connotative meanings, and had to rewrite a few sentences “with words that arouse more positive feelings.” The words that the students were supposed to change were underlined. For example, they might [...]

Filed under: Feminism, Kids, Personal, Tidbit | 14 Comments »

Should Happy Meal Toys Be Banned?

March 23rd, 2010

I heard this story on the radio this morning: one California supervisor wants to ban fast food restaurants from selling toys with fast food meals. Of course, this is only one county in one state, so we’re hardly at the level of an argument before the Supreme Court. A child’s “Happy Meal” may soon be [...]

Filed under: Advertising, Health, Kids, Personal, Question, Tidbit | 45 Comments »

Amanda Seyfried On Her Diet Of Spinach & Seeds

March 19th, 2010

In an interview with the Examiner, Amanda Seyfried admits she’s “not naturally thin,” and goes to extremes to make sure she gets acting work. “I’m on a raw-food diet,” says Seyfried. “It’s intense, and sort of awful. Yesterday for lunch? Spinach and some seeds… If I didn’t run and work out, there’s no way I [...]

Filed under: Celebrities, Diet Talk, Eating Disorders, Exercise, Movies, Tidbit | 20 Comments »

Beth And Gabby And Oscar

March 10th, 2010

Back from vacation and trying to catch up! Did I miss anything exciting? If so, leave a comment or Tweet me up! In the meantime, here’s the Fug Girls’ take on Gabby Sidibe’s dress at the Oscars. I have to say I don’t love it; I don’t love the color and I don’t love the [...]

Filed under: Beth Ditto, Celebrities, Fashion, Feminism, Gabby Sidibe, Mo'Nique, Movies, TV, Tidbit | 10 Comments »

Screenshots At ABC.com

February 23rd, 2010

I just had to share something I noticed as I was browsing ABC.com. The picture they use to promote their “Is It Okay To Be Fat?” story is of two “faceless fatties” (better than the headless fatties, for sure); the picture they use to promote a story on “Fat Acceptance” is… of two rail-thin models. [...]

Filed under: Media, Tidbit | 9 Comments »

Fat Debate On Nightline Tonight

February 23rd, 2010

People are still letting MeMe Roth say things on TV, whereupon fat people say things back. Ah, memories. Thanks to Rosemary in the comments and KMc in e-mail for reminding us that the Nightline piece is on tonight! From plus-size to big boned, pleasantly plump to succulently shapely, and Rubenesque to curvy, no matter how [...]

Filed under: TV, Tidbit | 20 Comments »

Update To Fat Bridesmaid Story

February 5th, 2010

I’m sorry I haven’t posted anything since last Friday (it’s been a crazy week), but here’s a follow up that I was happy to read this morning: So Carolyn, about an hour after your chat last week I called up my nasty bridezilla friend (the one who dropped another bridesmaid for being too fat) and [...]

Filed under: Advocacy, Feel Good Friday, Tidbit | 19 Comments »

Bride Dumps Fat Bridesmaid Who Will “Ruin The Pictures”

January 29th, 2010

So the first part of this story isn’t so much Feel Good Friday fodder. A bride has apparently dropped one of her bridesmaids for being too fat, according to a letter sent to advice columnist Carolyn Hax. The feel good part is that the letter-writer is one of the other bridesmaids, who is so appalled [...]

Filed under: Fat Positive, Fatism, Feel Good Friday, Tidbit | 37 Comments »

Kourtney Kardashian’s Post-Baby Weight Loss Secret? Photoshop.

January 26th, 2010

At least according to OK! Magazine, which grabbed a photo of her, photoshopped all the baby weight off her, and slapped it on the cover with a headline reading “MY DIET SECRETS: LOSE 10 LBS IN 10 DAYS.” Must be seen to be believed.

Filed under: Celebrities, Magazines, Photoshop, Tidbit | 9 Comments »

The Correlation Between Antidepressants And Weight Gain

January 25th, 2010

A fascinating article in the Boston Globe, called Fattened by Pills, discusses the often-unspoken correlation between taking antidepressants and gaining weight: Many [psychiatric drugs], which are used to treat emotional problems including depression and anxiety, cause weight gain — often of the rapid and massive sort — as one of their “side effects,” that brilliant [...]

Filed under: Health, Science, Tidbit | 26 Comments »

Fat-22

January 22nd, 2010

The health risks of obesity may be exaggerated by (or in part caused by) the discrimination of health care professionals. Particularly, of course, when their patients are women. I’ll quote at length; the article really speaks for itself. (Shoutout to Suzy Smith, my Facebook friend, who is mentioned in the article.) Recent studies have found, [...]

Filed under: Fatism, Feminism, Health, Science, Tidbit | 19 Comments »

Christmastime Is Here…

December 24th, 2009

And I’m going to be spending it with the fam. Feel free to use this as an open thread if there’s anything we should all know about or if you need to vent because your family makes you feel guilty about how much you weigh. (Oh, is that just me? Nevermind.) (Now I feel bad [...]

Filed under: Meta, Personal, Tidbit | 11 Comments »

Dear Strangers At Lunch: You Should Lose Weight

December 23rd, 2009

Passive Aggressive Notes is a website that features… um… passive aggressive notes. This one was received by a group of three diners who out were having lunch, and were passed a note by a woman at the next table, who signed her name Angela. You can read the whole note at the site, but here [...]

Filed under: Fatism, Food, Tidbit | 27 Comments »

Do You Wear Horizontal Stripes?

December 7th, 2009

I realized the other day while purchasing yet another sweater with horizontal stripes that I actually have a lot of clothes that have stripes on them. For a long time that was a big fashion no-no in my brain, because STRIPES = FAT = OMG! = AAH! But then I stopped worrying about it. My [...]

Filed under: Fashion, Personal, Question, Tidbit | 43 Comments »

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