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Not “Fattie Quickies”

February 10th, 2010

I do link roundups from time to time, to try and cover links people send me or things I might otherwise miss. I was thinking of making it a regular feature, especially given how much I enjoy the Morning Shots at Monkey See and Fugs and Pieces at Go Fug Yourself. But I have [...]

Filed under: Art, Celebrities, Fashion, Gabby Sidibe, Humor, Links, Magazines, Meta, Movies, NSFW, Race & Ethnicity, Sex & Romance | 22 Comments »

Most Of Us Will Never Look Like This, Either

January 1st, 2010

But man, these pictures are hot.
V Magazine has released a second editorial from the forthcoming issue entitled “Curves Ahead” that is sure to spark up more debate. It features 5 plus models in everything from swimwear to lingerie to denim to a Lady Gaga-esque leotard. The editorial, shot by Solve Sundsbo, is filled with [...]

Filed under: Art, Celebrities, Crystal Renn, Fat Positive, Magazines, Media, NSFW | 11 Comments »

Plus-Sized Celebrities In Madison Magazine

December 21st, 2009

I knew about Madison magazine from Project Runway Australia, as it is the Elle/Marie Claire of that show (“The winner of Project Runway will receive a spread in Madison magazine…”). Now Beautiful You has a post about the plus-sized celebrities who posed nude for their October issue. More pictures at the link; mildly NSFW.
The woman [...]

Filed under: Advocacy, Biggest Loser, Celebrities, International, Magazines, NSFW, Project Runway, TV | 8 Comments »

Feel-Good Friday: April Flores, You Can Make Me Feel Good Any Time

November 13th, 2009

Are you feeling down, low, sad, lonely, lacking in happiness and needing a tiny little boost to get you through that last patch of Friday and boost you into the weekend? Are you feeling cynical, hateful, sure that the world is bigoted and there are no positive, body-friendly messages left on earth and that everyone [...]

Filed under: Advocacy, Art, Celebrities, Fashion, Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, Feminism, International, Magazines, Media, NSFW, Video | 36 Comments »

A Two-Minute Dose Of Va-Va-Va-Voom

October 16th, 2009

According a recent study, overweight women have a decrease in self-esteem when looking at models, regardless of the size of the models, whereas underweight women experience a boost in self-esteem, again regardless of the size of the models (thanks La Wade for the link).
We get a LOT of e-mail from PR folks about random stuff [...]

Filed under: Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, NSFW, Video | 20 Comments »

Shapely Women

August 28th, 2009

The Merchant’s WifePainted by Boris Kustodiev, 1918
After reading our Miss America post, Jane e-mailed me and mentioned she had her own blog dedicated to “classical pictures of sensual and lovely women with body types that are rarely seen in modern media.”
I can relate to this; I took a picture of this picture in the [...]

Filed under: Art, Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, International, NSFW, Old Timey | 5 Comments »

1914 Vermont State Fair Poster

August 12th, 2009

Poster for a side show…Originally uploaded by The LOC
From the Library of Congress (via Weetabix) comes this poster, advertising a “human curiosities” sideshow from the 1914 Vermont State Fair: Ruth the Acrobat.
Not only is the image interesting, so are the (many many) comments, ranging from the neutral:
it looks like she doesnt have bones
To the naughty:
This [...]

Filed under: Art, Fat Positive, Fatism, NSFW, Old Timey | 19 Comments »

No Comment

July 29th, 2009

Courtesy of my friend dogofthefuture comes… well…

no commentOriginally uploaded by mo pie
I think Wendy might have something to say about this.

Filed under: Food, Humor, NSFW, Tidbit | 16 Comments »

"I'm Fat And Nobody Likes Me"

June 29th, 2009

So this is a teen (tween?) band called Chair, with a song called “I’m Fat And Nobody Likes Me.” Finkbuilt describes it as “Awesome teen angst comedy mischief pop by Chair. Kind of NSFW, sophomoric and juvenile.” On YouTube, they are being compared to everyone from Jack Black to Moldy Peaches. Take a [...]

Filed under: Humor, Kids, Music, NSFW, Video | 12 Comments »

"You Do Not See Fat People In Concentration Camps"

June 8th, 2009

We’ve all read ridiculous examples of hate towards fat people, and I know I shouldn’t be surprised or indignant at this incredibly stupid argument, but OH MY GOD, YOU GUYS. This woman, Deborah Coddington, actually comes out and agrees that anyone can be thin, because people in Nazi concentration camps were thin. I know [...]

Filed under: Fatism, International, NSFW, Science | 93 Comments »

A True Fact: All the -isms Suck

May 26th, 2009

The Gruen Transfer is an Australian show about advertising which dissects and analyzes the affects of advertising on the average human brain. As part of their show, they frequently issue challenges to agencies–create This Kind of advertisement. Sell this seemingly impossible-to-sell idea. This time around, it was make an ad about fat discrimination.
One entrant came [...]

Filed under: Advertising, Advocacy, Fatism, International, Media, NSFW, Politics, Question, Race & Ethnicity, TV, Video, Weight Loss | 26 Comments »

BBWOMGWTF?

May 19th, 2009

Does anyone remember BBW Magazine? The founder, Carole Shaw, coined the term “BBW’ back in 1979, meant to be an attempt at fat pride (although one could argue that the message was hidden behind an acronym, much like the models inside said magazine hid behind tunics and drapey jackets) but has been taken over as [...]

Filed under: Feminism, Magazines, NSFW | 34 Comments »

Self-Conscious During Sex

March 5th, 2009

I received this letter from Sara, and immediately asked if I could post it here and get your feedback.
Hello Ms. Pie,
I am having a bit of a dilemma. I am about to lose my virginity (at 22) to a man who I really love. That’s not the problem. The problem is that I am so [...]

Filed under: Fat Positive, Humor, NSFW, Question, Sex & Romance, Video, WLS | 45 Comments »

Secret Diary Of A BBW Callgirl

February 5th, 2009

Originally uploaded by mo pie
I got an e-mail recently from a plus-size sex worker who keeps a blog called For Lovers of Curves.
I’m going to put most of this post behind a cut; although I don’t think it’s super NSFW, you never know! Anyway, her bio is:

Filed under: Advertising, Fat Positive, Fatism, Feminism, NSFW, Personal, Sex & Romance, Work | 8 Comments »

Ricky Gervais Continues To Break My Heart

January 6th, 2009

Ricky Gervais—creator of my favorite television show of all time and another show that makes me enjoy, of all people, Chris Martin from Coldplay—must you keep making me sad?
I feel like we’ve talked about this before—his description of himself as a “fatty,” his standup routine where he mocks Dawn French’s weight, his self-loathing, and so [...]

Filed under: Celebrities, Fatism, Humor, International, NSFW, Ricky Gervais, TV, The Office, Video, WLS | 11 Comments »

Somehow I think "around the clock" wasn't the original lyric

November 5th, 2008

I’m happy today. Very very happy. I could be happier, but right now, I’ll take this amount of happy. And because I’m so happy, I absolutely loved this clip from a cable access show called “Goddesses” and because I love you too, I’m sharing it. Consider it a follow up to the jawdropper that [...]

Filed under: NSFW, Sex & Romance, Video | 12 Comments »

I'm Henry The Eighth, I Am. Sort Of.

September 2nd, 2008

Henry VIIIOriginally uploaded by mo pie
In the BBC Miniseries The Tudors, the creators have decided that lead actor Jonathan Rhys Meyers, who plays Henry VIII, should not gain weight as the time period advances. Why? Because he will no longer be “appealing.” (And apparently audiences will be too dumb to figure out why [...]

Filed under: Art, Celebrities, Fatism, Gossip, International, NSFW, TV | 23 Comments »

This Entire Post Is Probably TMI

August 11th, 2008

It’s true that culturally, the responsibility for having an adequately-sized sexual organ is all on the guy, but a growing movement is noticing that hey, it’s not like a vagina only comes in petite. One girl’s hooha might be snug while another girl might get labeled as “cavernous” by guys in private. After all, it [...]

Filed under: Fat Positive, NSFW, Question, Sex & Romance | 53 Comments »

A Perfect Ten: Does Your Partner Love Your Body?

July 23rd, 2008

We all know that there is no such thing as an “ideal beauty,” right? And that we women shouldn’t define ourselves or our self-worth according to what men find sexy, right? It is with this disclaimer in place, then, that I tell you the preferred body type for men, according to this survey (link NSFW) [...]

Filed under: Feminism, International, Magazines, NSFW, Personal, Question, Sex & Romance | 37 Comments »

BFD BlogHer Meetup Report

July 20th, 2008

So, that was BlogHer! A very interesting, overwhelming experience. People were so friendly and awesome, I felt I could strike up a conversation with anyone at any time—and I did a lot of that. There were also lots of mommybloggers everywhere, so much so that it didn’t feel quite like my scene a lot [...]

Filed under: BlogHer08, Feminism, Gossip, Meta, NSFW, Sex & Romance | 21 Comments »

Erotic Book Review

May 6th, 2008

Celia Kyle writes sexy-sexy romance novels featuring plus-sized heroines. Commenter mccn volunteered to do a totally honest review of one of Celia’s books, as I thought some of you might be interested. Enjoy!
The best sex comes with humour. Whether it’s being able to share a laugh at the noises bodies make when they [...]

Filed under: Books, Guest Post, Meta, NSFW, Review, Sex & Romance | 10 Comments »

Fat Pregnant Woman = Pig

February 28th, 2008

big fat ad Originally uploaded by mo pie
A PETA protest as reported on Perez Hilton, sent in by Donna. (The larger size may be NSFW; hopefully this small version is okay.)
I have no words.
[ETA: From the comments, I've learned that the woman is actually pregnant, [...]

Filed under: Advocacy, Fatism, NSFW, Tidbit | 55 Comments »

The Full Body Project On The Colbert Report

February 15th, 2008

Leonard Nimoy was on The Colbert Report last night talking about his book of photography, and why his book should be on every coffee table in America. It was so exciting!

The audience cheers for the women pictured (note that these are nude photos and might not be work safe), Nimoy makes some great points, [...]

Filed under: Art, Fat Positive, Feel Good Friday, Humor, NSFW, TV, Video | 35 Comments »

Problem, Solutions

November 27th, 2007

You may have heard about Dan Savage’s recent column about the man who has stopped being sexually attracted to his fat wife (perhaps you read The F Word’s take on it)? In case you haven’t, here is the question in question.
My wife’s skin is a mess, she has dietary issues that cause gnarly gas, she [...]

Filed under: Advocacy, Fatism, Media, NSFW, Question | 42 Comments »

Beth Ditto Jams Out With Her Ham Out

August 28th, 2007

Via EW comes this photo of, basically, an angle straight up Beth Ditto’s skirt. (Hence the NSFW tag.) The really depressing bit is in the comments. Exactly what you’d expect: very ugly fat-bashing talk. Feel like getting pissed off? Check it out.

Filed under: Beth Ditto, Fatism, NSFW, Tidbit | 16 Comments »

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