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	<title>Comments on: Update To Fat Bridesmaid Story</title>
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	<description>We&#039;re bringing chubby back.</description>
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		<title>By: Robyn</title>
		<link>http://www.bfdblog.com/2010/02/05/update-to-fat-bridesmaid-story/comment-page-1/#comment-52624</link>
		<dc:creator>Robyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 17:37:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s nice to hear a happy ending, and I hope the &quot;fat bridesmaid&quot; realizes how valuable her true friends are.

It&#039;s probably too much to hope that the bride realizes how appalling her behavior was and accepts responsibility with sincere apologies all around.

And I gotta say...if I were the groom, I&#039;d be having some serious second thoughts here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s nice to hear a happy ending, and I hope the &#8220;fat bridesmaid&#8221; realizes how valuable her true friends are.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s probably too much to hope that the bride realizes how appalling her behavior was and accepts responsibility with sincere apologies all around.</p>
<p>And I gotta say&#8230;if I were the groom, I&#8217;d be having some serious second thoughts here.</p>
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		<title>By: Jenny Islander</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenny Islander</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 02:49:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the fat bridesmaid, her friend, and any other ex-bridal-party member who would like to attend should have a private party on the wedding date.  They can wear comfortable clothes, play their favorite music, eat something sloppy with their fingers (I&#039;m thinking gigantic skewers of grilled vegetables, followed by chili dip with chips), and share this for dessert:

http://whatever.scalzi.com/2006/09/26/how-to-make-a-schadenfreude-pie/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the fat bridesmaid, her friend, and any other ex-bridal-party member who would like to attend should have a private party on the wedding date.  They can wear comfortable clothes, play their favorite music, eat something sloppy with their fingers (I&#8217;m thinking gigantic skewers of grilled vegetables, followed by chili dip with chips), and share this for dessert:</p>
<p><a href="http://whatever.scalzi.com/2006/09/26/how-to-make-a-schadenfreude-pie/" rel="nofollow">http://whatever.scalzi.com/2006/09/26/how-to-make-a-schadenfreude-pie/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Charlotte</title>
		<link>http://www.bfdblog.com/2010/02/05/update-to-fat-bridesmaid-story/comment-page-1/#comment-51625</link>
		<dc:creator>Charlotte</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:58:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, that bride is unbelievable!

And &quot;hosebeast&quot; is my new favorite insult.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, that bride is unbelievable!</p>
<p>And &#8220;hosebeast&#8221; is my new favorite insult.</p>
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		<title>By: Liza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 18:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well-placed use of the phrase &quot;psycho hosebeast&quot; (of course, Wayne&#039;s World references are ALWAYS appropriate). Plus, like miss kitten said, I am happy for the fat bridesmaid that got dumped. It has to feel good knowing that there are people who have your back, even if they aren&#039;t actually your friend. 

I hope that the bride realizes it was her behavior that caused people to leave her wedding party and that she maybe learned something from it. I don&#039;t have high hopes about that part, but a girl can dream.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well-placed use of the phrase &#8220;psycho hosebeast&#8221; (of course, Wayne&#8217;s World references are ALWAYS appropriate). Plus, like miss kitten said, I am happy for the fat bridesmaid that got dumped. It has to feel good knowing that there are people who have your back, even if they aren&#8217;t actually your friend. </p>
<p>I hope that the bride realizes it was her behavior that caused people to leave her wedding party and that she maybe learned something from it. I don&#8217;t have high hopes about that part, but a girl can dream.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 16:16:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is great! Wish more people are like her, sticking up for their principles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is great! Wish more people are like her, sticking up for their principles.</p>
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		<title>By: Weighting Around</title>
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		<dc:creator>Weighting Around</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 14:45:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds like the makings of a TV show!  I sure am on your side!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds like the makings of a TV show!  I sure am on your side!</p>
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		<title>By: Alyssa</title>
		<link>http://www.bfdblog.com/2010/02/05/update-to-fat-bridesmaid-story/comment-page-1/#comment-51112</link>
		<dc:creator>Alyssa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 03:41:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>YAY!!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>YAY!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Elena</title>
		<link>http://www.bfdblog.com/2010/02/05/update-to-fat-bridesmaid-story/comment-page-1/#comment-51021</link>
		<dc:creator>Elena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 20:23:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am SO happy that went down the way it did. I LOLed at &quot;Hosebeast&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am SO happy that went down the way it did. I LOLed at &#8220;Hosebeast&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: miss kitten</title>
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		<dc:creator>miss kitten</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 19:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the most IMPORTANT thing, in my mind, is how good the &quot;too fat&quot; bridesmaid has to feel, in being validated as a person who deserves to be treated well.  having friends beside you is a really good thing.  yay, and go EVERYONE who is holding this bridezilla up to the light and saying &quot;your actions STINK.&quot;

.....and it makes me REALLY glad that TheEngineer and i got married at the courthouse in texarkana, arkansas.  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the most IMPORTANT thing, in my mind, is how good the &#8220;too fat&#8221; bridesmaid has to feel, in being validated as a person who deserves to be treated well.  having friends beside you is a really good thing.  yay, and go EVERYONE who is holding this bridezilla up to the light and saying &#8220;your actions STINK.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8230;..and it makes me REALLY glad that TheEngineer and i got married at the courthouse in texarkana, arkansas.  ;)</p>
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		<title>By: SeaShore</title>
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		<dc:creator>SeaShore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 12:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That rocks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That rocks!</p>
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