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Starwatch: Gabby Sidibe

October 1st, 2009

I’m giving Gabby Sidibe her own category because I don’t want to be caught unawares when she’s walking down the red carpet on Oscar night and we need to post about how hot she looks and/or what insane thing she’s wearing.

Gabby is the star of the film Precious, also starring Mo’Nique, who is also getting Oscar buzz, which I approve of, especially because her name is Mo’Nique. Rachel blogged about the movie here:

The film is based on the book, Push, by Sapphire, about an abused fat teenage black girl in Harlem, and seems to encapsulate the range of feminist topics: domestic abuse, racism, sizeism, poverty, sexual assault, illiteracy… And newcomer Gabourey “Gabby” Sidibe, who plays Precious, is an Actual Fat Woman and not some thin star swimming in a fat suit.

And Annie sent me this link about Gabby herself:

“She is unequivocally comfortable in her body, in a very bizarre way. Either she’s in a state of denial or she’s so elevated that she’s on another level,” [the director] says. “I had no doubt in my mind that she had four or five boyfriends, easily.”

Ah, yes, her weight. When Sidibe was 11 years old, an aunt offered to pay for a cruise if she lost 50 pounds. Friends and family continue to pressure her about it. “I still hear it from people who don’t know that they’re pretty close to hurting my feelings,” she says, “people who care about me, like this one friend. I was eating a light potato chip, and she eyeballed me like I was the most disgusting thing she’d ever seen. She says, ‘Every time you want to put something disgusting in your mouth, think of the designers who won’t make a dress for you because you’re fat.’ ”

But at some point, says Sidibe, “I learned to love myself, because I sleep with myself every night and I wake up with myself every morning, and if I don’t like myself, there’s no reason to even live the life. I love the way I look. I’m fine with it. And if my body changes, I’ll be fine with that.”

I won’t lie–I’m kind of nervous to see Precious, because it is clearly not an easy movie to experience. But I’m thrilled to see actresses like Sidibe and Mo’Nique getting recognition for this project, and I have no doubt that it’s an outstanding film.

Posted by mo pie

Filed under: Books, Celebrities, Gabby Sidibe, Mo'Nique, Movies

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7 Responses to Starwatch: Gabby Sidibe

  1. Bianca, on October 1st, 2009 at 11:53 am Said:

    I bawled my head off watching the 2 minute preview. I don’t know if I can do the whole movie….

  2. maddy, on October 1st, 2009 at 3:49 pm Said:

    I bought the book years ago out of a markdown bin. It’s excrutiating and beautiful. Just recently saw a new print of it in an airport bookshop and was pleased to see it there. I’ll definitely see the movie.

  3. The Bald Soprano, on October 1st, 2009 at 5:17 pm Said:

    Bianca: I cried and cried at the preview, too. I don’t know if I’ll be able to watch it. I’ll probably wait until it comes out on video and then try it at home where I can sob with no-one but my husband the wiser and turn it off if it’s too much.

  4. Bianca, on October 1st, 2009 at 8:48 pm Said:

    Bald Soprano: That is an excellent idea – I am fairly certain it will not be in the theaters in my town, so I would have to make quite a drive to go see it anyway.

  5. Beth, on October 2nd, 2009 at 7:43 am Said:

    The book is a tough read and I don’t think I could take it on film.

  6. feral geographer, on October 2nd, 2009 at 10:27 am Said:

    there’s an excellent piece on the film over at racialicious!

  7. Dor, on October 11th, 2009 at 11:41 am Said:

    Bianca,

    I bet it will play theaters near you. I saw this a while ago and while it’s certainly going to be a hit in the arthouses, it also has huge crossover potential. It will be Oscar nominated, without a doubt, and will get a wide release. Oprah and Tyler Perry are the executive producers!

    I never read the book but the movie is definitely the best I’ve seen this year so far.

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