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Fatshonista Shout-Out in Jezebel

May 20th, 2009

Jezebel has discovered that you don’t have to be skinny to be stylish! It’s true!

While it’s kind of hilarious that this is an exclamatory phrase full of revelation, as if they have just discovered fire or similar, I love that the fatshionistas, who really are wickedly stylish, are getting major media attention and love for their fine, fine selves over at Jezebel. And while I am not blown away by their discovery, I know that the writer has a point–people really aren’t used to seeing positive, attractive photographs of well-dressed fat women.

To be honest, while scrolling through the images, it was startling, at first, to see picture after picture of “fat,” plus-sized, or heavy women. Not because of their bodies, or their clothes — they look fantastic — but because I just wasn’t used to it. Street fashion sites like The Sartorialist, Street Peeper and FaceHunter feature people who love getting dressed up, playing with fashion and making their own clothes, but even though they are “real” people and not models, they are, 99% of the time, slender. On “reality” TV, we see people with size 0 bodies in fake situations; even the Dove Campaign For Real Beauty had a Photshop scandal regarding its ads. The world of magazines, TV and movies so often excludes women who are above a size 12 that even though you see these people everyday — at work, on the street, in your family, in the mirror — it still seems odd to see them grouped together, looking stylish on a website. But while it was shocking to see these women, posing and proud, it was also refreshing — you’ve got to love a woman in a pretty dress with a cupcake tattooed on her shoulder. While part of me wonders what Anna Wintour would think of the Fatshionistas, the other part of me is so glad they don’t care.

This really is a kind of revelatory, brand-new idea to some people. Which sucks. But more articles like this and maybe someday it won’t be.

Posted by jenfu

Filed under: Advocacy, Fashion, Fat Positive, Media

5 Responses to “Fatshonista Shout-Out in Jezebel”

  1. Alyssa, on May 20th, 2009 at 10:12 am Said:

    There’s a part of me that just wants to hit them with the “Duh!” stick, but you’re right. The more people who realize that fat people can be stylish, the less of a surprise it will be.

  2. demimonde, on May 20th, 2009 at 11:18 am Said:

    I’ve got extra sanity points, so I’m heading over there right now to lay some HAES on the comments!

    (Not that they’d be that bad, but there’s gotta be at least one concern troll)

  3. Kate79, on May 20th, 2009 at 11:39 am Said:

    Demimonde: There’s a few… There’s a thread with about 100 posts due to a “concern troll” as you put it.

    I read Jezebel every day, but post comments pretty sparingly. This whole post annoyed and depressed me. Actually all of yesterday was one of those days I guess for me… seems like everything I saw or read just made me feel worse about myself.

  4. Liza, on May 20th, 2009 at 8:47 pm Said:

    Despite the “no shit, Sherlock” nature of the post, it’s nice that something that is widely read like Jezebel is pointing this out. That’s a good step.

    *avoids comments*

  5. Kari, on May 21st, 2009 at 10:46 pm Said:

    I find this kind of reaction (Jezebel’s) to Fatshion better than “ewww what r they thinkin showing flab”. This is the first step – like hey, fat people DO have fashion sense. Maybe they… have feelings? Understand their own bodies and health? Maybe I should get their perspective and really understand what’s going on here.

    There’s bound to be some trolly commentors, but at the same time, maybe this would make a few of them stop and think.

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