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SecretTweet: Weight Edition

February 6th, 2009

I’m addicted to SecretTweet, the Twitter version of Post Secret, where people submit their secrets and they’re posted anonymously. Often there are weight-related ones that come up, and I think of you guys. So I thought I would collect a few here.

Some of them are hopeful:

My boyfriend weighs three times what I do, but I think he’s sexier than anyone I’ve ever dated.

Some make you want to know more:

I’m only happy when I feel full.

A lot of them are depressing:

The thought that I’ll never be skinny makes me really sad.

Some make you want to reach through the screen and shake the person on the other end:

i cant bear to tell my sister that she could look amazing if she lost a few pounds.

Or give them a hug:

he used to wait until i was naked to talk about how fat i am. i can’t stop thinking about it when i look down – it’s been two years.

Or a talking-to:

I’m about to get bariatric surgery, but it won’t change anything. Inside I’ll still be the fat woman my husb no longer wants sex with.

Or a high-five:

I love when skinny girls with too much make-up glare at me with my boyfriend. That’s right – fat girl got the hottie!!

But I love the little glimpse into what other people are thinking, the things people think but don’t say.

Posted by mo pie

Filed under: Fat Positive, Fatism, Feel Good Friday, Media, Meta, Sex & Romance, Tidbit, WLS, Weight Loss

7 Responses to “SecretTweet: Weight Edition”

  1. Tiana, on February 7th, 2009 at 8:32 am Said:

    I used to be addicted to the LiveJournal version of Post Secret because you could actually leave comments there. It was always a huge dramafest and eventually I decided to stop reading it altogether for the sake of my mental health. I still can’t stand being unable to reply to the original Post Secret, so I avoid that, too. >.<

    Yeah, I absolutely agree with the things those secrets make you want to do.

  2. Pudgy Gal, on February 7th, 2009 at 11:16 pm Said:

    I had no idea that SecretTweet or Post Secret existed….I just might be living in a cave. I have got to check these both out! Thanks for the head up!

  3. Pudgy Gal, on February 7th, 2009 at 11:24 pm Said:

    It’s me again. I checked out SecretTweet and some of the posts made me laugh, some made me want to cry and some made me cringe. Although it’s extremely interesting and I can see myself becoming addicted, I don’t think that I can look again because I’m afraid that I am going to read a confession that will haunt me for life.

  4. Shameka, on February 8th, 2009 at 12:22 pm Said:

    I’ve posted a few secrets there. Sort of like going to confessional without being Catholic! Hahaha…

  5. Matt, on February 8th, 2009 at 1:56 pm Said:

    And some that make me laugh like an idiot.

    “17553 I am letting out the worst farts this morning, and I didn’t even drink last night. Jesus, I think my dog would choke on these.”

  6. Chelle, on February 9th, 2009 at 9:50 am Said:

    I think having a place to write whats on your mind and nobody really caring who you can help a lot of people make them realize “hey, i’m not the only one who feels this way”.

  7. Sam, on February 16th, 2009 at 3:23 am Said:

    I’ve been reading PostSecret too but I haven’t heard of TweetSecret ’til now. It’s a good thing to know you’re not alone and there are other people going through the same thing.

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