Secret Diary Of A BBW Callgirl
I got an e-mail recently from a plus-size sex worker who keeps a blog called For Lovers of Curves.
I’m going to put most of this post behind a cut; although I don’t think it’s super NSFW, you never know! Anyway, her bio is:
I’m a gal in my early thirties, and I’ve just started working part time as an escort/callgirl/whore. I’m fat by the way. Well, BBW is one of the more polite terms. I’m a size 18-20. Most days I’ve made my peace with that, but I’d be a liar if I said I was 100% okay, 100% of the time.
She writes in detail about her sexual experiences, both professionally and non, and it’s a fascinating peek into that world. The reason she sent me an e-mail in the first place, however, had to do with the fact that agencies (through whom many escorts work) are not interested in listing her because—yep, you guessed it—she’s fat.
On days when I’ve been stood up by a client (again) I often think about agency work. There are always ads around for girls wanted. Every now and then I inquire. Polite emails that mention my size. To date I’ve only had one reply with a curt “We only take models to a size 10″…
But it stands to reason that even an exclusive agency would be trying to cater to everyone – and what do they do if some rich dude says – “Give me a girl with boobs out of this world”. Or even, “I wanna fuck a fat chick for laughs.” Not that I’d really want to do the second dude, but still… And if I’m keen to see them and be high-end, and they’re looking for me but can’t find gals like me, then why aren’t the agencies getting in on this action?
All I can figure is it comes to down to advertising. They have websites full of flowing locks and concave bellies. Maybe they think I’d bring down the tone of their establishment?
Maybe someone who knows or studies sex work can weigh in (ho, ho) on this topic. For what it’s worth, while walking through the Red Light District in Amsterdam, I did see women in the windows of a wide range of shapes, builds, sizes, ethnicities, and ages—presumably to cater to every taste. I guess I always assumed escort agencies would have the same kind of variety.
Man, if I can’t find a cute curvy girl the next time I’m at the Bunny Ranch, I’m going to be really disappointed.
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Interesting!
When I watched the Cathouse show about the Bunny Ranch on HBO (before I had to cut down on my cable costs, stupid economy), I definitely noticed they had one big girl. Not even Hollywood big, she was probably also around an 18/20 and was quite cute. Weird that regular agencies wouldn’t want to cash in, but it’s just like designers who refuse to make their clothes in plus sizes. They want to sell a certain “image” even if it means missing out on a big (har har) part of the market.
So very true – it’s like saying every woman thinks Bradd Pitt is the be-all when I know girls who have a thing for Seth Rogan.
Not every guy is wanting ‘girls gone wild’… It’s like going to a buffet – where’s the variety? And how will you know if you’re not into it if it’s not offered?
Most girls I know who are larger, have more cleavage, more confidence and are far more empathetic in the bedroom – so why not offer that to men???
Mmmm….Seth Rogan……
We just watched the HBO Cathouse show last night and saw the plus-size girl again. I think they may actually have two. The man who owns the Moonlite Bunny Ranch, Dennis something or other, said in a previous episode that they have all kinds of girls in every ethnicity, size, shape, etc… because guys like variety. In other words, he’s a good businessman. It seems like these agencies are really just hurting themselves. Would you rather go to a store that offers 20 items or a store that offers only 1?
Seth Rogan is Hott!
I’m curious about the picture – where’s it from?
Weetabix found it, it’s by Belloq and it’s from 1912.
This sort of thing confuses me. I myself have a unique look, with a short haircut and a nice curvy body. I work with an escort agency, and they do indeed have two to five BBW on the books. And they get calls. Not as many as the barbie blonds, but they get their share. Even those of us who are neither barbie slim nor specialty large get our share of the calls. There are so many different tastes!
so, I was recently trawling the porn offerings on demand at the Marriott, and they had two categories I found interesting: fat chicks and old chicks. I think they were “big beautiful women” and “older women dominating younger men” I wasn’t in the mood for any of it so I didn’t actually get to see what the actors looked like.
my thought is, if they offer this now as on-demand porn, there’s plenty of people who want it in person. that escort should start her own business specializing in plus size escorts and put up a gorgeous website. Then she can call the other agencies and let them know where to refer their chasers.