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How Do You Feel About New Year's Resolutions?

December 31st, 2008

Yesterday I was at the gym thinking that, since it’s almost January 1, I might have to start waiting for elliptical machines again pretty soon. It’s the time of year where people make resolutions to lose weight, to go back to the gym, to “get healthy.” And the gym gets crowded, and Weight Watchers meetings [...]

Filed under: Exercise, Food, Health, Personal, Question, Weight Loss | 23 Comments »

Leo To Kate: "Let The Whole Fat Girl Thing Go"

December 29th, 2008

We all know that I love Kate Winslet. I also happen to love Kate and Leo (BFF!), and I am so excited to see Revolutionary Road, even though I’m sure the movie won’t be as good as the book but WHATEVER, it has Kate and Leo. (My husband’s comment upon seeing the trailer was, “This [...]

Filed under: Celebrities, Gossip, Kate Winslet, Meta, Movies | 14 Comments »

Server Move

December 23rd, 2008

It seems that some people are having trouble with the site: Sorry, I don’t mean to derail the conversation, but I just thought I’d delurk to ask if anyone else is having troubles with this site? It hasn’t let me access it for days, and even now I can only see the front page. I [...]

Filed under: Meta | 6 Comments »

"Most Of Our Upscale Clientele Is Smaller" Says Macy's

December 18th, 2008

Nonk was telling me about this Consumerist article last night, and I almost fell over. A woman named Amanda went to Macy’s and tried to buy a formal dress in a plus size. And here’s what she was allegedly told: Pam: I’m sorry, ma’am. Macy’s does not cater to your size. Me: I beg your [...]

Filed under: Fashion, Fatism, Race & Ethnicity, Work | 65 Comments »

The Rebellyon

December 15th, 2008

If you have never heard the Dresden Dolls, check out “Coin Operated Boy” as soon as possible. If you have heard of them, you may have also heard that singer Amanda Palmer was recently told by her record label that her “fat belly” makes her “uncommercial.” The F-Word UK says: This comes from a metal [...]

Filed under: Advocacy, American Idol, Beth Ditto, Celebrities, Feminism, International, Music, Video | 17 Comments »

Oprah My God

December 10th, 2008

Oh boy howdy, did I hear about Oprah today! In case you hadn’t heard (which I sincerely doubt is the case), she now WEIGHS TWO HUNDRED POUNDS SHOCK HORROR SHOCK. And is talking about it in the January issue of O Magazine with great consternation and hand wringing. “I’m mad at myself,” Winfrey writes… “I’m [...]

Filed under: Celebrities, Magazines, Oprah | 29 Comments »

A Reason For Overweight Kids To Exercise?

December 9th, 2008

I don’t think I posted about this, but I do remember hearing a while back that overweight kids are not only more likely to be bullied, but they’re also more likely to be bullies. The topic is coming up again, with a new study showing that “expressions of anger” are reduced in overweight kids who [...]

Filed under: Exercise, Kids, Science | 12 Comments »

Your Body Has No Flaws

December 5th, 2008

Snowed under at work, but had to share this post from onceupon, which struck me as very profound and wonderful today. I don’t talk about my body in terms of flaws. Even if I weren’t into fat/body/size/whatever flavor you call it acceptance, I wouldn’t because to define things in terms of negative qualities is to [...]

Filed under: Advocacy, Feel Good Friday, Tidbit | 13 Comments »

"I Can't Believe I Was A Fat Person," Says Ricki Lake

December 2nd, 2008

I’ve been critical of Ricki Lake in the past for her attitude towards her weight loss. Last October, here’s what I said: It’s not that I begrudge Ricki Lake losing weight (even though she’s only eating 1,200 calories a day, which seems tragically low to me); if she’s happy, then great. But the quotes about [...]

Filed under: Gossip, Hairspray, Kids, Movies, Ricki Lake, Weight Loss | 40 Comments »

It's Christmas Time In The City

December 1st, 2008

Well hello there, friends! It’s December 1, officially the Hannukah/Christmas/Kwanzaa/Solstice season, and for the Americans out there, the end of Thanksgiving vacation. Starbucks has holiday drinks (although no sugar-free gingerbread this year, FAIL) and I can finally bust out my favorite holiday playlist, including the Zooey Deschanel and Leon Redbone version of “Baby, It’s Cold [...]

Filed under: Fashion, Meta, Personal, Question | 29 Comments »

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