If you’ve been offended somehow, then why not just stop reading the entry? For some of us, it’s interesting information. She meant no offense in posting this. It’s nice to know some people are eliminating social stigmas and stereotypes about sex when it comes to being skinny or fat. This is a large (no pun intended) step for us bigger peeps.

So quit being all conservative and stuff.

Now for the entry:
I’d like to say that this is probably why I’ve never heard a guy complain about a sexual encounter with me. Lol. I just assumed I had the magic touch. Aww nuts… =P
I am curious though… How awkward would it be to slip in a related question to one of my skinny friends?

“Hey, how’s it goin? Listen… does your boy ever say that he wishes you were heavier?… Oh. No reason. Hey, how tight are you, if you don’t mind me asking?”

Somehow I don’t think the conversation would go well. Heh. =P
Thanks for the post!

Oh, and I think this is a fair conversation and I’m not offended or embarassed by it.

I also believe this DOES have validity when we discuss pleasure focused on US, not on penises or fingers or tongues or whole fists even. If i am a woman that has gone my entire life believing the myth that my vagina is huge and cavernous and therefore I must not please my partner nor get as much pleasure personally, I am going to be held back sexually. I think that is just a given. By giving me back the power of saying “lady, your body size does NOT dictate your vagina size” you are giving me the accurate idea that my pleasure is not based on size or the ability to be “tight enough” for a partner. I only know for myself personally, but once I accepted my body (I dont quite love it just yet, but i do accept it) for the size it was, i got a lot better and being proactive about positions and toys that felt the best and also communicating with partners about limitations and also creativity.

Also, (sorry this is getting long I know). i recently finished a book called “bonk” by Mary Roach about the history of sex research and one of the things she talks about is a feeling many women have reported of “not being able to feel him inside while getting closer to orgasm”. (i wish i had the book to quote but I gave it to my mother to read, sorry) Basically based on research done on the event of orgasm, physically many women’s vaginas DO get larger at the very base. They form almost a “pocket” so to speak by ballooning out right before orgasm. To the best of their knowledge and research, scientists have figured it was a biological response to procreation. By ballooning out just prior to orgasm, a woman can essentially collect and hold ejaculate and then during orgasm the contractions can propel it forward toward the cervix.

Just something to think about, maybe those “huge vaginas” are getting close to orgasm, it is porn after all:)

I’m a big, tall girl and I have a tighter vagina…Only it’s a bit stretchier now that I’ve had a kid.

The muscle tissue of the vagina are pleated…a bit like an accordian…so it can all be stretched out pretty wide with some exersize. If you aren’t doing your kegals and you’re using a monster of a dildo…you’re probably going to have a looser cunny…if you’re using smaller equipment and doing a lot of kegals, you’ll probably have a little more tightness and control down there.

Honestly I think the kegal/pelvic tilts have more to do with tightening things.

I’m a BFDude and In my experience(s), there has been a gamut of difference from those who were crack-whore skinny to BBWs. With tight and loose accompanying each end of that spectrum and those in-between.

…and there’smoretoyouthanjustfat is right…most of us (men) aren’t gonna throw up the white flag just because we’ve found ourselves with a loosey-goosey. it’s all warm, it’s all moist and as long as it moves well and doesn’t smell bad…we’re usually game.

That should be far from any woman’s greatest concern, as anyone that would complain is no prick you’d want to have anything to do with anyway.

I think this was a great post by the way.