BFD-licious

This Entire Post Is Probably TMI

August 11th, 2008

It’s true that culturally, the responsibility for having an adequately-sized sexual organ is all on the guy, but a growing movement is noticing that hey, it’s not like a vagina only comes in petite. One girl’s hooha might be snug while another girl might get labeled as “cavernous” by guys in private. After all, it is the very gutteral origination of the term “a loose woman”. But when I was reading an article on the subject in the Observer and got to this quote from Dian Hanson, former editor of Juggs (is that really a porn mag? I always thought it was a joke), I stopped short.

She did say that heavy women tend to be tighter. “You’re going to see the most cavernous ones on little, tiny, slender women,” she said. “This is where, to the pornographer, these things become apparent: You say to the girl, ‘O.K., bend over, put your chest on the bed and let your butt stick up in the air.’ These little skinny girls? That thing will blow up like a balloon. She gets in that position, her belly drops forward-you can hear the suction. It will open right up. “Let’s hear it for the fat girls on this one!” she added.

Um…Holla?

You know, at risk of oversharing, I think she might be right. After all, if fat acts as a cushion or stuffing, then an extremely thin woman wouldn’t have any and things would be, er, roomier. And in this fat girl’s experience…yes. We’ll leave it at that.

What about everyone else? Anyone brave enough to spill? Hopefully we will get some BFDudes to chime in with the scoop!

Posted by Weetabix

Filed under: Fat Positive, NSFW, Question, Sex & Romance

You might also like

  1. Post-Pro-Ana
  2. I'll Have An Obese Latte, Please
  3. Big Fat Deal's Top 5 Size-Positive Songs for Girls Who Rock Their Curves

53 Responses to This Entire Post Is Probably TMI

← Older Comments
  1. dareva, on August 14th, 2008 at 3:59 pm Said:

    Defiant, Betty Dodson’s website has many pictures of genitalia, sent by ordinary non-pornstar people, and there are clits aplenty. The variety in parts is pretty interesting.

  2. apophenia, on August 15th, 2008 at 2:43 pm Said:

    I’m 5 feet tall. At 96 pounds, I was tight. At 145 pounds, I was tight. At all points in between, I’ve been tight. I think If I were 200, 300, 700 pounds, I’d still be tight.

  3. Phancci, on January 31st, 2009 at 3:00 pm Said:

    Myria – I don’t think the intention of the post was meant to be offensive. No one is being reduced to “body parts”. I actually was interested to read this particular bit of information. I don’t think it’s inappropriate at all.

    If you’ve been offended somehow, then why not just stop reading the entry? For some of us, it’s interesting information. She meant no offense in posting this. It’s nice to know some people are eliminating social stigmas and stereotypes about sex when it comes to being skinny or fat. This is a large (no pun intended) step for us bigger peeps.

    So quit being all conservative and stuff.

    Now for the entry:
    I’d like to say that this is probably why I’ve never heard a guy complain about a sexual encounter with me. Lol. I just assumed I had the magic touch. Aww nuts… =P
    I am curious though… How awkward would it be to slip in a related question to one of my skinny friends?

    “Hey, how’s it goin? Listen… does your boy ever say that he wishes you were heavier?… Oh. No reason. Hey, how tight are you, if you don’t mind me asking?”

    Somehow I don’t think the conversation would go well. Heh. =P
    Thanks for the post!

← Older Comments

Subscribe to the comments for this post (RSS)

« As Seen On TV: Fad Exercise Equipment
That's What We've Been Telling You »

RSS button Entries RSS

RSS button Comments RSS

Email us

Look around
  • What's the Big Fat Deal?
  • Introduce yourself
  • How do I love myself? And the follow up.
  • Our Facebook group
  • BFD greatest hits
  • 10 Ways to be a Body Positivity Advocate
  • Our pet fish
  • Press and media
We are...
Image of Mo Pie Image of Weetabix Image of Jenfu
Find it
Meta
+ Click to display
  • Log in
  • Entries RSS
  • Comments RSS
  •  
  • Google Reader or Homepage
  • del.icio.us 43 Folders
  • Add to My Yahoo!
  • Subscribe with Bloglines
  • Subscribe in NewsGator Online
  • Furl 43 Folders
  • Add to Technorati Favorites!
  • Add to netvibes
  • Health Blogs - Blog Top Sites
  • Pop Culture Blogs -  Blog Catalog Blog Directory
  • Blogging Fusion Blog Directory
  • I fight fat-hate!
  • B-List Blogger
  • Bloggapedia, Blog Directory - Find It!
  • As Seen on Delightfulblogs.com
  • Blogarama - The Blog Directory
  • Top HealthCare Sites
  • + Click to hide
Your comments
  • Babs: So sorry to hear that you are moving to Facebook. I’m one of those “dinosaurs” who refused to...
  • Trish: I’m a heavier girl, and throughout my pregnancy so far I’ve not thought too much about looking...
  • Rhonwyyn: Hi Mali, So sorry you’re feeling this way. I was never very skinny, but I learned to hate my body as...
  • Jody: I just got this cute Disney Nerds bag at Disneyland this January. It was only $20 and the strap is super long....
  • Courtney: I found one at H&M. Can’t wear a damn thing from that store except their bags, and it was under...
Recent entries
  • New BFD Page on Facebook
  • Recommend A Crossbody Bag
  • It Happened To Me: I Read xoJane.com
  • Actor Gains 50 Pounds, Becomes "Much Funnier"?
  • Nordstrom Rack Fall Outfit Extravaganza
  • Say Yes To The Dress: Big Bliss
Notes from the Fatosphere
Most Popular Categories
  • Advertising Advocacy America Ferrera American Idol Art Ask BFD Beth Ditto BFD Classic BFDudes Biggest Loser BlogHer08 Books Britney Spears Carnie Wilson Celebrities Cold Hard Cash Comics Courtney Love Dance Your Ass Off Diet Talk Diet Talk Warning Drop Dead Diva Eating Disorders Exercise Fashion Fatism Fat Positive Fat Suits Feel Good Friday Feminism Food Gabby Sidibe Glee Gossip Guest Post Gwyneth Paltrow Hairspray Health Huge Humor International Jenfu Jennifer Aniston Jennifer Hudson Jennifer Love Hewitt Jessica Simpson Kate Winslet Keira Knightley Kelly Clarkson Kids Kirstie Alley Links Magazines Media Meta Mike & Molly Mo'Nique Mommyblog More To Love Movies Music Nikki Blonsky NSFW Old Navy Old Timey Oprah Personal Photoshop Politics Project Runway Queen Latifah Question Race & Ethnicity Renee Zelwegger Review Ricki Lake Ricky Gervais Science Sex & Romance Star Jones Theater The Office Tidbit TV Tyra Banks Uncategorized Video Weetabix Weight Loss WLS Work

Twitter
[aktt_tweets count="5"]
Most Comments
  • Nordstrom Rack Fall Outfit Extravaganza (232)
  • How Do Strangers Treat You? (134)
  • "The Beautiful People Are The Skinny People" (103)
  • "You Do Not See Fat People In Concentration Camps" (100)
  • Are You Insecure About Your Height? (97)
  • Big Fat Ad (91)
Archives
Powered by WordPress & WPDesigner :: Design by Pattycake Designs & modified by Make My Blog Pretty :: Logo by Evan Carothers