This Entire Post Is Probably TMI
It’s true that culturally, the responsibility for having an adequately-sized sexual organ is all on the guy, but a growing movement is noticing that hey, it’s not like a vagina only comes in petite. One girl’s hooha might be snug while another girl might get labeled as “cavernous” by guys in private. After all, it is the very gutteral origination of the term “a loose woman”. But when I was reading an article on the subject in the Observer and got to this quote from Dian Hanson, former editor of Juggs (is that really a porn mag? I always thought it was a joke), I stopped short.
She did say that heavy women tend to be tighter. “You’re going to see the most cavernous ones on little, tiny, slender women,” she said. “This is where, to the pornographer, these things become apparent: You say to the girl, ‘O.K., bend over, put your chest on the bed and let your butt stick up in the air.’ These little skinny girls? That thing will blow up like a balloon. She gets in that position, her belly drops forward-you can hear the suction. It will open right up. “Let’s hear it for the fat girls on this one!” she added.
Um…Holla?
You know, at risk of oversharing, I think she might be right. After all, if fat acts as a cushion or stuffing, then an extremely thin woman wouldn’t have any and things would be, er, roomier. And in this fat girl’s experience…yes. We’ll leave it at that.
What about everyone else? Anyone brave enough to spill? Hopefully we will get some BFDudes to chime in with the scoop!
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Defiant, Betty Dodson’s website has many pictures of genitalia, sent by ordinary non-pornstar people, and there are clits aplenty. The variety in parts is pretty interesting.
I’m 5 feet tall. At 96 pounds, I was tight. At 145 pounds, I was tight. At all points in between, I’ve been tight. I think If I were 200, 300, 700 pounds, I’d still be tight.
Myria – I don’t think the intention of the post was meant to be offensive. No one is being reduced to “body parts”. I actually was interested to read this particular bit of information. I don’t think it’s inappropriate at all.
If you’ve been offended somehow, then why not just stop reading the entry? For some of us, it’s interesting information. She meant no offense in posting this. It’s nice to know some people are eliminating social stigmas and stereotypes about sex when it comes to being skinny or fat. This is a large (no pun intended) step for us bigger peeps.
So quit being all conservative and stuff.
Now for the entry:
I’d like to say that this is probably why I’ve never heard a guy complain about a sexual encounter with me. Lol. I just assumed I had the magic touch. Aww nuts… =P
I am curious though… How awkward would it be to slip in a related question to one of my skinny friends?
“Hey, how’s it goin? Listen… does your boy ever say that he wishes you were heavier?… Oh. No reason. Hey, how tight are you, if you don’t mind me asking?”
Somehow I don’t think the conversation would go well. Heh. =P
Thanks for the post!