Comments on: My Fathead Spouse http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/ We're bringing chubby back. Thu, 09 Sep 2010 16:13:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: brenda http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-3431 brenda Sat, 17 Jan 2009 23:45:18 +0000 http://www.bfdblog.com/?p=147#comment-3431 Hey it is over a year later and my sweetheart and i are still together and i still love him just as i did 27 years ago....like i said a little more of him to love. that's the key love is blind it has no eyes...if you love someon you just do..and i love my man with all my heart..when we are together i feel like i am 13 again.... Hey it is over a year later and my sweetheart and i are still together and i still love him just as i did 27 years ago….like i said a little more of him to love. that’s the key love is blind it has no eyes…if you love someon you just do..and i love my man with all my heart..when we are together i feel like i am 13 again….

]]> By: Anon http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-3430 Anon Wed, 28 May 2008 15:43:04 +0000 http://www.bfdblog.com/?p=147#comment-3430 I'm 40 lbs overweight and single atm. I honestly wouldn't expect a guy who married me at a smaller size to still be physically attracted to me if I gained 100 lbs. Just with this extra 0 lbs, there are so many things I can't do as easily as when I weighed 40 lbs less and I'm not just talking about sex. It's all congregated around my tummy and with heart disease in my family, I'm losing the weight and not taking any chances. Anyway, I don't think this guy is a dick. He married a woman who was in shape and then she gained 100 + lbs. I'd react the same way as him. I’m 40 lbs overweight and single atm. I honestly wouldn’t expect a guy who married me at a smaller size to still be physically attracted to me if I gained 100 lbs. Just with this extra 0 lbs, there are so many things I can’t do as easily as when I weighed 40 lbs less and I’m not just talking about sex. It’s all congregated around my tummy and with heart disease in my family, I’m losing the weight and not taking any chances.

Anyway, I don’t think this guy is a dick. He married a woman who was in shape and then she gained 100 + lbs. I’d react the same way as him.

]]> By: brenda http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-3429 brenda Sat, 22 Dec 2007 01:06:35 +0000 http://www.bfdblog.com/?p=147#comment-3429 Hey, I am with my old sweetheart from when i was thirteen, he is now 39, and yes in high school he was absolutely HOT!! Now he has gained weight and gray hair and lost some hair to he has wrinkles and truth be known he looks quite different...but when i look at him I see that boy that I fell in love with 26 years ago, and I just reconnected with him after twenty years...I love him and it doesn't matter how he looks or what my friends say cause he still is the same to me i can't even imagine not being attacted to him...he is still the same guy there is just more of him to love now... Hey, I am with my old sweetheart from when i was thirteen, he is now 39, and yes in high school he was absolutely HOT!! Now he has gained weight and gray hair and lost some hair to he has wrinkles and truth be known he looks quite different…but when i look at him I see that boy that I fell in love with 26 years ago, and I just reconnected with him after twenty years…I love him and it doesn’t matter how he looks or what my friends say cause he still is the same to me i can’t even imagine not being attacted to him…he is still the same guy there is just more of him to love now…

]]> By: Kristin http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-3428 Kristin Sun, 05 Aug 2007 12:24:38 +0000 http://www.bfdblog.com/?p=147#comment-3428 Uggh. Some of these comments are making me barf! I think the horrible truth is: if thin women knew how many men were only with them for their body size, they would be truly horrified. And they should be. There is no reason why this couple couldn't get it on when the wife was fat. No reason they had to live like "brother and sister" instead of like two lovers. The guy is obviously a dick and the woman is lame for thinking that all she is worth is how much she doesn't weigh. This just reinforces my opinion that all people should be fat just to see how cowardly and insecure people really are. Uggh. Some of these comments are making me barf! I think the horrible truth is: if thin women knew how many men were only with them for their body size, they would be truly horrified. And they should be. There is no reason why this couple couldn’t get it on when the wife was fat. No reason they had to live like “brother and sister” instead of like two lovers. The guy is obviously a dick and the woman is lame for thinking that all she is worth is how much she doesn’t weigh. This just reinforces my opinion that all people should be fat just to see how cowardly and insecure people really are.

]]> By: Don http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-3427 Don Thu, 02 Aug 2007 14:41:13 +0000 http://www.bfdblog.com/?p=147#comment-3427 if you are bitching about this my fat spouse.com it means your a fat Dick yourself. You are turning your insecurity and inablity to loose wieght into anger and blaming someone else. The facts are out type 2 Diabetes heart disease poor sex life and a poor quality of life over all. A fat spouse will die earlier than a thin healthy one wich is not fair to you or your children, or to thier grandchildren. Have you ever seen a child or grandchild loose someone they were close to because of heart disease and diabetes. Its not fun to watch or go through. you wouldnt let your spouce drive drunk would you or play russian roulette oh but telling them they are fat and repulsive and selfish is nit very nice. Well if you are that much of a jerk that you are afraid to tell them and you let them keep on you desreve to have them taken from you 20 years early. Think about it Do you want to live the last 20 years of life without a spouce... Now who is the Dick if you are bitching about this my fat spouse.com it means your a fat Dick yourself. You are turning your insecurity and inablity to loose wieght into anger and blaming someone else. The facts are out type 2 Diabetes heart disease poor sex life and a poor quality of life over all. A fat spouse will die earlier than a thin healthy one wich is not fair to you or your children, or to thier grandchildren. Have you ever seen a child or grandchild loose someone they were close to because of heart disease and diabetes. Its not fun to watch or go through. you wouldnt let your spouce drive drunk would you or play russian roulette oh but telling them they are fat and repulsive and selfish is nit very nice. Well if you are that much of a jerk that you are afraid to tell them and you let them keep on you desreve to have them taken from you 20 years early. Think about it Do you want to live the last 20 years of life without a spouce… Now who is the Dick

]]> By: Peggy http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-3426 Peggy Tue, 17 Jul 2007 19:24:00 +0000 http://www.bfdblog.com/?p=147#comment-3426 While the picture thing was a low blow, I don't think the comment itself about regaining his wife was something offensive. I've just lost 35 pounds and it's made a huge difference on my self esteem and mood. Honestly, I wasn't happy at a heavier weight... I felt self-concious or just plain uncomfortable in clothes. I became a little more reclusive and didn't go to social events as much as I had previously. Obviously this is indicative of other problems, self-conciousness, the portrayal of heavier people, the shame put on heavier people etc. As soon as I lost the weight, though, I reverted back to past behavior. I am far more happy and social. In this case, we don't know the whole story. Maybe now that the wife has lost weight she is more out-going and has a more positive attitude and energy. That's at least what happened to me. While the picture thing was a low blow, I don’t think the comment itself about regaining his wife was something offensive. I’ve just lost 35 pounds and it’s made a huge difference on my self esteem and mood. Honestly, I wasn’t happy at a heavier weight… I felt self-concious or just plain uncomfortable in clothes. I became a little more reclusive and didn’t go to social events as much as I had previously. Obviously this is indicative of other problems, self-conciousness, the portrayal of heavier people, the shame put on heavier people etc. As soon as I lost the weight, though, I reverted back to past behavior. I am far more happy and social. In this case, we don’t know the whole story. Maybe now that the wife has lost weight she is more out-going and has a more positive attitude and energy. That’s at least what happened to me.

]]> By: virg http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-3425 virg Mon, 16 Jul 2007 22:45:46 +0000 http://www.bfdblog.com/?p=147#comment-3425 In college I had a boyfriend who told me that he wasn't sexually attracted to me anymore because of a slight weight gain after I had knee surgery (I was 15 lbs lighter than I am now). He was promptly booted from my apartment and I never looked back. By contrast my husband has loved me thick and thin, and has never stopped worshiping me like a goddess in the bedroom no matter my size. I think if your man does not find the beauty and sexuality in you regardless of your package then he is not really in love with you and we all deserve much better than that. In college I had a boyfriend who told me that he wasn’t sexually attracted to me anymore because of a slight weight gain after I had knee surgery (I was 15 lbs lighter than I am now). He was promptly booted from my apartment and I never looked back. By contrast my husband has loved me thick and thin, and has never stopped worshiping me like a goddess in the bedroom no matter my size. I think if your man does not find the beauty and sexuality in you regardless of your package then he is not really in love with you and we all deserve much better than that.

]]> By: enchanted_black http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-3424 enchanted_black Mon, 16 Jul 2007 04:43:35 +0000 http://www.bfdblog.com/?p=147#comment-3424 And you need to get over yourself. Society needs to value brains and personality because in the long run beauty doesn't last. And you need to get over yourself. Society needs to value brains and personality because in the long run beauty doesn’t last.

]]> By: njnjknjNJ http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-3423 njnjknjNJ Sat, 14 Jul 2007 22:18:46 +0000 http://www.bfdblog.com/?p=147#comment-3423 Society values attractiveness, not brains or personality. Survival of the fittest (hottest). You guys need to just get over it. Society values attractiveness, not brains or personality. Survival of the fittest (hottest). You guys need to just get over it.

]]> By: Christine http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/07/11/my-fathead-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-3422 Christine Fri, 13 Jul 2007 03:24:31 +0000 http://www.bfdblog.com/?p=147#comment-3422 Thats a pretty intense weight loss. I am trying to think if thats even humanly possible for moi! HA. I think my bones are bigger than a size 2 - so thats not going to happen. :) Great blog and thanks for sharing - very interesting. Thats a pretty intense weight loss. I am trying to think if thats even humanly possible for moi! HA. I think my bones are bigger than a size 2 – so thats not going to happen. :) Great blog and thanks for sharing – very interesting.

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