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		<title>By: Tara</title>
		<link>http://www.bfdblog.com/2007/06/13/npr-black-women-and-sluts/comment-page-1/#comment-2742</link>
		<dc:creator>Tara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jun 2007 00:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know, after reading this article I realized that there are two things going on with Debra Dickerson; internalized racism, and internalized sexism. According to her article, we black women are the only ones who have to do something about our weight. Call me crazy, but when I turn on the television or walk down the street, I see quite a few hefty brothers carrying  extra poundage in their middle, which is considered to be the most dangerous place for extra weight to be.  There is NO mention of that factor in this piece. I also find it appalling that us accepting ourselves is just our way of &quot;pooh poohing anything &#039;white&#039;&quot;, even though historically it has taken many strides for sisters (via magazines like &quot;Ebony&quot;, &quot;Jet&quot; and &quot;Essence&quot;) to even get in the radar of what is considered beautiful by mainstream media. Once upon a time  a black woman&#039;s chances for making it as a model were slim to forget it, in spite of her having the right dimensions. This article states that not only should we not accept ourselves, MEN shouldn&#039;t accept us either!? I&#039;m sorry, but that upsets me so much. That bullshit REALLY hurts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know, after reading this article I realized that there are two things going on with Debra Dickerson; internalized racism, and internalized sexism. According to her article, we black women are the only ones who have to do something about our weight. Call me crazy, but when I turn on the television or walk down the street, I see quite a few hefty brothers carrying  extra poundage in their middle, which is considered to be the most dangerous place for extra weight to be.  There is NO mention of that factor in this piece. I also find it appalling that us accepting ourselves is just our way of &#8220;pooh poohing anything &#8216;white&#8217;&#8221;, even though historically it has taken many strides for sisters (via magazines like &#8220;Ebony&#8221;, &#8220;Jet&#8221; and &#8220;Essence&#8221;) to even get in the radar of what is considered beautiful by mainstream media. Once upon a time  a black woman&#8217;s chances for making it as a model were slim to forget it, in spite of her having the right dimensions. This article states that not only should we not accept ourselves, MEN shouldn&#8217;t accept us either!? I&#8217;m sorry, but that upsets me so much. That bullshit REALLY hurts.</p>
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		<title>By: Kindersczenen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kindersczenen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 20:07:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting....there has also been a study done that shows that black women have a slower metabolism than white women.  On average, they noticed that black women burned around 106 calories less than white women, even after they lose weight.

There is also the cultural factor, although this may play less of a role than previously thought.  Those in lower socioeconomic levels may not have the same access to fresh vegetables, fruit, etc., as someone whose got a little more money.  There&#039;s also genetics--blacks often suffer from hypertension far more than whites, and what happens when you have hypertension?  Water weight gain.

As for the hostess stating that men need to grow up, what does she look like?  I&#039;m guessing she&#039;s no Sophia Loren (who she&#039;d probably say was too fat).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting&#8230;.there has also been a study done that shows that black women have a slower metabolism than white women.  On average, they noticed that black women burned around 106 calories less than white women, even after they lose weight.</p>
<p>There is also the cultural factor, although this may play less of a role than previously thought.  Those in lower socioeconomic levels may not have the same access to fresh vegetables, fruit, etc., as someone whose got a little more money.  There&#8217;s also genetics&#8211;blacks often suffer from hypertension far more than whites, and what happens when you have hypertension?  Water weight gain.</p>
<p>As for the hostess stating that men need to grow up, what does she look like?  I&#8217;m guessing she&#8217;s no Sophia Loren (who she&#8217;d probably say was too fat).</p>
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		<title>By: whyme63</title>
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		<dc:creator>whyme63</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 16:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a pear-shaped, NPR-listening woman of Swedish descent, and I endorse this column and its comments.

But I noticed that I can&#039;t seem to spell controversy very well. Sorry!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a pear-shaped, NPR-listening woman of Swedish descent, and I endorse this column and its comments.</p>
<p>But I noticed that I can&#8217;t seem to spell controversy very well. Sorry!</p>
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		<title>By: medii</title>
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		<dc:creator>medii</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 11:58:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>spinsterwitch I have to say living in Sweden the body type you are deskribing (sp?) is very common among swedish women. Alot of pearshaped women out here :) Just tough you would like to know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>spinsterwitch I have to say living in Sweden the body type you are deskribing (sp?) is very common among swedish women. Alot of pearshaped women out here :) Just tough you would like to know.</p>
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		<title>By: mo pie</title>
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		<dc:creator>mo pie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 00:07:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, some of the people I am &lt;i&gt;marrying&lt;/i&gt; listen to NPR.   I love you, I just don&#039;t understand you. Hee!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, some of the people I am <i>marrying</i> listen to NPR.   I love you, I just don&#8217;t understand you. Hee!</p>
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		<title>By: littlem</title>
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		<dc:creator>littlem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 00:01:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot; ... because Ian is one of those people who I previously thought were mythical beings who actually listen to NPR by choice, and I don’t understand because it is so boring with its little musical interludes and sound effects, who are you people ...&quot;

And hey, Mo?  Easy on the NPR &quot;tone&quot; snark.  Some of your best commenters listen to NPR.

Hee.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8221; &#8230; because Ian is one of those people who I previously thought were mythical beings who actually listen to NPR by choice, and I don’t understand because it is so boring with its little musical interludes and sound effects, who are you people &#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>And hey, Mo?  Easy on the NPR &#8220;tone&#8221; snark.  Some of your best commenters listen to NPR.</p>
<p>Hee.</p>
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		<title>By: littlem</title>
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		<dc:creator>littlem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2007 23:47:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A) What Gina said.

B) What whyme63 said about controversy and the media.  (Methinks that may be why Ms. Dickerson has a Salon column in the first place -- outrage draws letters draws ad revenue.)


&lt;i&gt;Dickerson goes on to point out that “pre-kids” she was a “hardcore gym rat” who harassed co-workers “over the contents of their lunch sacks.”&lt;/i&gt;

I&#039;m &quot;hardcore&quot; enough that I have my own gym,  but I&#039;m certainly not going to harrass other people about what they eat.  Why?  &#039;Cause it&#039;s RUDE.

Ahh, the pleasant waft of the self-hating, over-controlling, over-other-scrutinizing personality.  That quote really says it all right there, yes?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A) What Gina said.</p>
<p>B) What whyme63 said about controversy and the media.  (Methinks that may be why Ms. Dickerson has a Salon column in the first place &#8212; outrage draws letters draws ad revenue.)</p>
<p><i>Dickerson goes on to point out that “pre-kids” she was a “hardcore gym rat” who harassed co-workers “over the contents of their lunch sacks.”</i></p>
<p>I&#8217;m &#8220;hardcore&#8221; enough that I have my own gym,  but I&#8217;m certainly not going to harrass other people about what they eat.  Why?  &#8216;Cause it&#8217;s RUDE.</p>
<p>Ahh, the pleasant waft of the self-hating, over-controlling, over-other-scrutinizing personality.  That quote really says it all right there, yes?</p>
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		<title>By: Rosemary Grace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosemary Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2007 21:29:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am nodding like crazy reading all of these great comments!

I am a white woman who happens to have the &quot;pear-shaped&quot; bottom-heavy[hur hur]-hourglass figure that is supposedly fetishized by black men.  I&#039;ve been chatted up by men of lots of different races, the only physical attribute I&#039;ve ever noticed attracting one cultural group was that Italian guys really went for my red hair when I kept it dyed that colour. Soon as I dyed it I was being pursued through the streets of London (actually very creepy, but true).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am nodding like crazy reading all of these great comments!</p>
<p>I am a white woman who happens to have the &#8220;pear-shaped&#8221; bottom-heavy[hur hur]-hourglass figure that is supposedly fetishized by black men.  I&#8217;ve been chatted up by men of lots of different races, the only physical attribute I&#8217;ve ever noticed attracting one cultural group was that Italian guys really went for my red hair when I kept it dyed that colour. Soon as I dyed it I was being pursued through the streets of London (actually very creepy, but true).</p>
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		<title>By: spacedcowgirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>spacedcowgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2007 15:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>whyme63, you and elyzabeth are so smart. And I don&#039;t just say that because I 1000% agree with her take on Debra Dickerson and your fleshing out of how these people end up being &quot;spokespeople&quot; for obesity issues in the media.

I mean, telling black men to &quot;grow up&quot;? And the &quot;gym rat,&quot; criticizing people&#039;s lunch boxes thing? She is so clearly overinvested in this issue, it&#039;s not funny. But play the &quot;health&quot; card and people automatically assume you have credibility and are speaking objective truth.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>whyme63, you and elyzabeth are so smart. And I don&#8217;t just say that because I 1000% agree with her take on Debra Dickerson and your fleshing out of how these people end up being &#8220;spokespeople&#8221; for obesity issues in the media.</p>
<p>I mean, telling black men to &#8220;grow up&#8221;? And the &#8220;gym rat,&#8221; criticizing people&#8217;s lunch boxes thing? She is so clearly overinvested in this issue, it&#8217;s not funny. But play the &#8220;health&#8221; card and people automatically assume you have credibility and are speaking objective truth.</p>
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		<title>By: whyme63</title>
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		<dc:creator>whyme63</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2007 12:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;Why do we keep letting people with obvious body issues themselves appear in media to tell everyone what kinds of bodies should and should not be allowed in the media?&lt;/i&gt;

Sweet Baby Ray, how true is that?

But my guess is that it is probably because people who &lt;i&gt;don&#039;t&lt;/i&gt; have body issues don&#039;t feel a compulsion to judge everyone against a standard that comes from their own disordered brain, and then go on TV to evangelicize the results.

And of course, the media doesn&#039;t want rational discourse and consensus about &lt;i&gt;anything&lt;/i&gt;. Controversey is what attract viewers and readers, sells product, and generates revenue. Controversey must therefore be created where none exists.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Why do we keep letting people with obvious body issues themselves appear in media to tell everyone what kinds of bodies should and should not be allowed in the media?</i></p>
<p>Sweet Baby Ray, how true is that?</p>
<p>But my guess is that it is probably because people who <i>don&#8217;t</i> have body issues don&#8217;t feel a compulsion to judge everyone against a standard that comes from their own disordered brain, and then go on TV to evangelicize the results.</p>
<p>And of course, the media doesn&#8217;t want rational discourse and consensus about <i>anything</i>. Controversey is what attract viewers and readers, sells product, and generates revenue. Controversey must therefore be created where none exists.</p>
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