Comments on: Heartbreak

By: Jackie

Jackie — Wed, 02 May 2007 12:09:27 +0000

I remember seeing that one. Made me want to write him back, saying “I’m sure she’s so glad she got rid of you. You don’t deserve love.”

By: littlem

littlem — Mon, 30 Apr 2007 20:10:27 +0000

Whoever said this was LaBute nailed it. Textbook.

“But I am still in LOVE with you.”

Then SUFFER for your weakness, dude. And learn from your mistake.

By: spinsterwitch

spinsterwitch — Mon, 30 Apr 2007 16:28:19 +0000

It makes me sad to think about how it is that we bow to others’ perception of what’s okay. I still struggle with this, although I’m getting lot’s of practice at letting it go, as well.

By: Nomie

Nomie — Sun, 29 Apr 2007 19:28:53 +0000

The handwriting and the message make me think that he’s probably in high school. Which makes sense, but – it’s one of those wounds that fat girls receive as they grow into fat women. It’s common. And it’s sad. But there’s hope that he’ll grow out of it. And I know she’ll find someone who loves her for who she is.

By: Jeff Rhodes

Jeff Rhodes — Sun, 29 Apr 2007 05:50:48 +0000

What a jerk!

By: K

Sat, 28 Apr 2007 16:26:54 +0000

I agree with Freya.

And at least he knows he did the wrong thing.

By: Brenda

Brenda — Sat, 28 Apr 2007 14:22:56 +0000

Rock on, Shae. Why should she accept some guy who caves to pressure from his friends about his girlfriend’s body? The blessing? His friends saved her a lot of trouble.

I want a man who can stand up for himself and for me.

By: Freya

Freya — Fri, 27 Apr 2007 23:43:38 +0000

When I saw this on post secret, I felt sorry for both of them. This guy sounds extremely insecure, but is still hurting. It’s easy to say that she’s better off without him, but is she? Yes it’s right that she deserves for him to be more mature, they could have grown together, How do we know what she’s feeling?
We don’t know how old he is, but I think a lot of us can remember (or are still experiencing) what it is like to have so much pressure and teasing from our friends that it’s easier to do anything to shut that up. No matter how much it hurts

By: jessica fantastica

jessica fantastica — Fri, 27 Apr 2007 23:32:59 +0000

Yep, I feel bad for both of them. I don’t think he would waste the time making up a post card and sending it in if he didn’t mean it. But like Shae I also agree that she is better off with someone who can think for themselves and is a little more mature. Hopefully, eventually, he’ll learn to love unconditionally and without shame.

By: lisa-marie

lisa-marie — Fri, 27 Apr 2007 23:16:24 +0000

Oh, that’s sad.